We human beings are very good at kidding ourselves. We can fake things, even when we do not mean them, and carry on through some vague sense of duty, even when we have lost all real desire or passion for what we are doing. And the problem is that there are circumstances where this does have some value to it. We need to face it, there are times when we may not feel like doing what is right. There are times when we may need to nerve ourselves to do something even if we do not feel like it. And if we allow ourselves to do what is right only when we happen to feel like it, no commitment and no relationship will ever be safe. For feeling is something that comes and goes like the wind, often deserting us at the moment we most need it. But if doing what is right becomes and stays nothing but a mere duty which does nothing but wear us down, there is a problem here too. How do we deal with this situation?